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Ramadan Kareem... or Ramadan is Bountiful in english.
Here in the land of Islam, today marks the start of the holy month of Ramadan. It's a strange concept to a Westerner, an entire month of fasting from dawn to dusk. I had always heard about Ramadan before I came here, but having to live through an entire month of it is a whole other story.
They don't really know exactly when Ramadan is going to start it seems, until the very last minute. Turns out they spotted the crescent moon on Thursday night and knew it was going to start today, on Saturday. Of course, nobody bothered to tell me. So I woke up Saturday morning, and like usual lately wondered what the hell I was going to do this weekend when it's 48 degrees Celcius outside. So like usual, I hopped in my car and headed to Marina Mall. And what did I find when I got there, to my last bastion of weekend entertainment, seeking my weekend coffee and Gulf News paper? Well, sure enough, Ramadan had started while I was asleep and unaware, and even though the mall was open, all the coffee shops and restaurants were closed, and the place was deserted.
Turns out the Muslims during Ramadan are not allowed to eat, drink, smoke, have sex, or pretty much do anything else, between dawn and dusk. And non-Muslims that are here, well, they have to show courtesy and not do any of the above in public either. I can usually go without having sex in public, but the eating is tough, and the drinking means my weekend coffee and paper is a no-go, so I guess I'll have to be good and play along. So now not only do I not have anything fun to do, I also can't even have a coffee and read the paper. For an entire month. Maybe I'll just join in the fasting, whether I like it or not.
Still I did go outside just now to get my laundry and lo and behold, I saw my first Crescent Moon. Amazing how I've never seen it quite like that before.
Ramadan Kareem!!!
So it's been more than a while since I last posted an entry here. When I first started reading all the other blogs around, and got excited to try and resuscitate my old travel blog that I've been keeping off and on for five plus years now. Except that my travel blog was exactly that, a blog based on my travels, or at least using my travels as a means to relate the new places I saw and the new experiences I encountered. This other kind of blogging that has sprung up, which essentially the blog becomes the end in itself, where you develop an audience and feel compelled to continue generating subject matter or content to keep that audience entertained. And this is a whole other thing from blogging for yourself as a means to document your life, a diary per say, a kind of public diary. But in the end, still mostly for yourself than for others.
So my lackluster attempt to convert my travel blog into a mainstream blog king of hit a snag after the first few posts. For a few reasons I guess. One, I only tend to blog when something interesting happens. And two, which is somehow related to one, I'm not traveling at the moment. So not much interesting has been happening. I could write about how my usual weekend sees me waking up early with my cup of coffee and spending the morning reading my list of favourite blogs. But who wants to blog about reading blogs? Or maybe how it's so hot outside now that summer has hit the Gulf region, that I've somehow sadly found myself morphed into that most pathetic and lowly of creatures known as a "mallwalker". Hey, when it's 45 degrees outside and you need exercise, there's not a lot of other options. Sure I would rather be hiking up a mountain somewhere, or running along a beach. But instead I power walk through Ikea and Carrefour, and try to avoid eye contact with the mall walkers club members. At least I didn't join the club. I still have my dignity.
So what's changed that's made me want to post once again after two plus months hiatus. What else. I travelled. Not far mind you. Not even out of the country. Just across the UAE to the East Coast, to a little seaside town called Fujairah. It's only about a four hour drive from Abu Dhabi, but it's a world away from the hustle and bustle of the capital, and Dubai. It's a tiny little place, with not a lot of white faces. Which woudn't normally make for much of a trip. But the thing this place has going for it is the beaches. The beaches here are amazing, and completely empty. Dubai is full of European sun seekers crowding the beaches. Here you have the Indians who flood the beach every Friday afternoon, but the local Emirates don't like the sun or the beach, so they're deserted the rest of the time. Except for me. And my little beach chair.
Friday I was planning on going scuba diving out to Musandam, Oman. So I woke up early and hit the road. But I kinda got lost, and couldn't find the dive shop, so by the time I found where I was going, the boat was already gone. So instead of diving, I just headed on down the road towards Oman. 
I decided that I had to at least do Oman one time, at least to say I've been there and add it to the list of countries I've frequented. So I went in search of Oman, and funny enough didn't even realize I had found it until I was already far into it. 
Stupid me, I assumed that you need to show your passport to pass from one country to the next. Apparently this basic rule of travel is disregarded when it comes to the UAE and Oman. I guess they must be on exceedingly good terms, since all you have to do is wave at the guy in the booth as your driving by and that suffices for a border check. Strange. So it wasn't until I started noticing banks with the word Oman in it, that I realized that indeed I was in Oman, and that it was pretty much anti-climactic. 
So I continued on, and tried to follow a highway up through the mountains, but after the first awe inspiring mountain pass, the ash fault abruptly ended and it was dirt road after that. And since my Toyota Yaris hatchback is the antithesis of a four by four, I turned back as well.
So other than seeing a few goats, and a few more mountains, I'd say that Oman is a whole lot like the UAE, just about 15 or so years in the past. So I headed back my hotel in Fujairah for a quiet night in.
But stopped on the way home to take some pictures of a boat and some dead fish.
This morning I was again up bright and early, and after doing domestic stuff I headed over to Khor Fakan to chill out on their stunning beach in my new favourite spot under my new favourite tree. Again, the beach was all to myself. So I made the most of it, with my new favourite book. The Glass Palace, by Amitav Ghosh. Amazing book. It's a story set in Burma, when the British invaded, and follows the Burmese royal family which is moved by the British to India, and how their lives turn out throughout India, Burma and Malaysia, during the rise and fall of the British Empire. Amazing story, and it's great to get a sense of the history of the countries surrounding Thailand, which I haven't had any experience before. Anyways, good book to pass the afternoon on the beach.
So I'm here in Fujairah until Tuesday, when I head back to Abu Dhabi to get packed up, as I'm heading home for my summer holiday on Wednesday night. Three weeks off, and only a few more days to go. Man this coming work week is gonna go so slow.
Lately I've found my self self-examining myself, to some degree. I've always prided myself on being a pretty happy go lucky sort of character. Nothing has ever phased me too much. Things have always worked out for the best, really. Despite my half hearted attempts to derail fate, fate has stubbornly stuck to it's course and delivered me safe and sound and healthy and prosperous to whatever shores I was meant to run up on.
Lately I've found myself thinking the old thoughts that eventually come back around to haunt me, every now and then. Usually when I'm feeling a bit down and burnt out, and wondering how I got here and if the path I've chosen is the path which I'm meant to be on.
Well, it's Friday afternoon here now in the land of our Muslim brothers. And of course those wacky guys decided somewhere back that they couldn't wait for the weekend to arrive. So what did they do? They cut short the week and made Friday into the new Saturday. Of course, being Muslim and all. They went and made Sunday the new Monday. Which unless you have had the pleasure of waking up on a Sunday morning and having to remind yourself that you have to go into work, you can never comprehend the confusion and horror of working on a Sunday, the day of rest. But having Friday off is cool, so who's to complain.
A week or so ago I found myself needing a little inspiration. Usual life grinding you down sorta thing. And I came across this blog (villagefarang.blogspot.com). Immediately I was struck by how much I saw in him. Someone who laid his thoughts and feelings and hopes for the future out for all to see. And I kinda saw me. In a mirror, or in a concept. I guess none of us are really all that different. We all choose to aspire to something, and we make the best of it from what we're given. But the great thing about today is that you can go out in search of others who more in kindred with yourself, to provide a beacon in the muddle to figure out your way.
On the kind permission of the original post owner, I've copied out our conversation here:
Bodhi Bum:
So, for introductions, I've just read through your posts from start to finish over the last two days. Something about you, your style of writing, your life lived, caught my eye I guess. So I started at the end, and jumped back to the beginning, then worked by way back to here.
You have an enviable life. And from what I've read, you deserve it. You are a very interesting person. A rare soul. Could be said. I'm still trying to figure you out a bit. You write like who I want to be. Yet you come from where I am. I'm still trying to piece the two together. But still finding it more than difficult to reconcile the two, and to find my way to where you are, from where I am.
You have the dream, with the eloquence to match. Yet it's hard to find out how to make it to where you are, your piece of happiness and contentment, from this reality of messy life. I have the feeling that you were once where I am now, that you dove right in, and past blogs gives me the hint you were.
Life has a funny way about it. You can see where you want to be. Then go the opposite direction. Then find others who found the right path, and give you a bit of a nudge in the right way to go. Your steadfastness is astounding. But inspirational. I do have my doubts you were always this way. But the fact that I do kinda think you were once a little "weak" like the rest of us, but have found a solid base inside to make your life how you imagined, to be inspirational. Yeah. ok, that's a big word. But we're all just scouring the net looking for a little inspiration. Just how it is.
I don't usually have much to say, since blogging and chatting is a usually a lot of talking for the sake of nothing. But I read your 1.5 years or so posts in 1.5 days. Funny how your years worth of work can be digested in such a short amount of time. But still, it's worth it, it's out there and it gave me a great deal of enjoyment and inspiration. Most of us are needing some inspiration nowadays, and it's not often we find it so clearly laid out as here.
Bodhi
Village Farang:
Surely there can be no greater reward for a writer, than to have his words read and appreciated. To have someone give up their valuable time to read your work, in its entirety, is an amazing gift. For that gift, I humbly thank you.
It is a safe bet, to assume that I have not always been this person. The strongest steel must truly be forged from fire. My journey is not yet finished I might add and one hopes for the wisdom and understanding to continue moving forward, to becoming a better person.
There can be no static state of being until we cease to be, so there will always be moments of weakness and doubt. I possess no special powers and have surely made my share of mistakes. By not reaching for certainty or conformity, I may have left the door ajar for this life to come and find me, however.
The only inspirational words I can find at the moment are that, as little power as we have over what happens around us or to us, we do possess the ultimate power of how we choose to respond.
VF
Bodhi Bum:
I don't, by any means, mean to hold you up to a measuring post and say that you have arrived, and have nowhere more to go. I realize you are just at a moment in your life, and still have a lot of learning and growing yet to do. However, from my perspective, I see where you are, and am judging myself against your progress. What would life be if we strived to arrive at a certain point, and lived "happily ever after". Obviously, we never arrive, we just are, and continue to struggle.
My only observation is that you tend to struggle a little less than the rest of us. A little less than myself, at least. You know nothing of me, and yet I know so much of you. Or at least what you put down on these pages, and what you have chosen to reveal.
I once, and still do, dream of the quiet simple life that you left the door open for and find yourself living now. And yet being the perpetual dreamer I found my little foray into thailand life somewhat destructive, both on my personal beliefs and my finances. An all to common theme, of that I am more than well aware.
I am striving for the peace of mind that will allow me to extract what is good and what I find I need from that place, but also the strength of character to forego what is not, and ultimately destructive of everything I seek to attain. I've always prided myself of having the clarity to see what I want, and the moral certainty to go after it and make it so. Recently I've found out I'm mortal, and too easily at home in the sewers so to speak. Turns out it's a little harder to clean yourself off after rolling around in the mud, than I once imagined.
I think what struck me about your writing, is that you don't come across as preaching. But rather, talking from someplace where you are quite familiar, and yet have risen above. I think it's much easier to look at the wind blowing across a rice field in the evening sun and find contentment, when you know there is nothing better, or higher, or more satisfying out there. Just over the horizon. Most people always are thinking, what if? What more? What am I missing? You have contentment which is above what most people seem to have. I can only guess, but I would say that it is because you have seen the other side of the coin, and now know the true meaning of happiness. A house. In a field. In a valley. With your trappings of happiness.
I know no one can ever truly be happy. And there is always the what ifs? I more than anyone know about freedom. I've lived out of my suitcase for the past seven years, lived in hotel rooms in 25 countries in seven years at last count, value my freedom above all else. But yet found myself one days craving a base. Somewhere to come back to every now and then. Which ultimately led to a rather unadvised condo purchase down south from you. Needless to say my attempts at putting down roots haven't gone according to plan, and hence my retreat back to the road to replenish the coffers and reprioritize the future plans.
The only inspirational words I can find at the moment are that, "as little power as we have over what happens around us or to us, we do possess the ultimate power of how we choose to respond."
Funny how you quote the only thing which really makes any difference or sense in life. Your future is what you make of it. Period. Plain and simple. That's it. You are the sum of your actions.
I have always strived to bring my actions in line with my true intentions. But I think I have always hidden behind the one truth that everything I do, everything I've done, has never been done in ill will to anyone. If anyone, only to myself. I've always treated everyone around me as I would want to be treated, despite repeatedly finding that I rarely ever get the same in return.
From what I read from your posts, you say that you always were rather guarded to those around you, that you always kept a safe distance and complete control, and only started to open up with your wife. To soften so to speak. Myself, I've always been a bit of a softie, but only for the girls. and that has gotten me into more trouble than I care to speak about. My dad was a softie, hence so am i. I've always said I shouldn't change, and yet now I find myself debating that.
Anyways, the point is that you seem to have validated for me, intentionally or not, that you can still be a caring human being with respect for your partner and people in general, with an open and introspective mind. And yet still have the iron mask on that allows you to survive in a tough world full of guys that try to drag you down to their level. If you could last most of your adult life in Bangkok and yet still emerge a caring and sensitive soul that you seem to be, then there is hope for the rest of us. Or at least for me.
Bodhi
Village Farang:
Reading your comment, I feel as if I might be glimpsing a previous version of me in the mirror. Certainly doors once opened can never be fully closed. Life leaves its mark (or mud) whether we know it or not, as you have found. I assure you my control and apparent suit of armor were donned only after surviving my share of pain, as self protection to guard what semblance of humanity, that remained untainted. For some, the pursuit of women, is born of contempt and conquest and primordial urges. For me it was a romantic and idealized pursuit of perfection. It took me longer to work through that than most, and arrive where I am today. Somewhere along the way I came to the realization that happiness cannot be acquired or bought but must be found within. If you cannot find happiness with what you have, you will never find it with what you acquire, purchase or pursue. I don’t necessarily agree that there is nothing better out there. I have not found perfection but I have perhaps perfected my view of what I have.
While it is true that Bangkok has brought many a man to his knees with its well documented temptations, there is no better place to explore the often dark and unseen corners of our being. Hidden amongst the dangers is the potential for great discovery and self knowledge. Somehow I do not find myself overly concerned about your path. Your intellect, instinct and introspection will surely guide you to where you need to be.
VF
Bodhi Bum:
I think that's what I saw in you as well, which sorta put the mirror up and gave me a view of a potential future path to get to where you are. And again I hate to keep talking as if you are a goal to be reached, a point in life to be attained. From your side, I can imagine you not quite wanting to feel like you're being held up as some future finish line. It's not your place, or position or age, really that I'm looking at, but rather your present state of mind. Some people are born with a good heart that make them a decent person, an open, inquisitive mind that allows them to find the simple, true pleasures in life, and the strength of character, will, conviction, to not squander their ideals and waste their potential. Some people, and I would have to put myself in this category, have got the heart, the ideals, and the curious mind, but sadly struggle with the conviction part of it.
When I first read your story, I came to the conclusion that you are likely a lot like me. But like anything, if you start with all the good ingrediants, then it's just a matter of working on the willpower part of it. And you seem to have confirmed that indeed, you have gone through your share of trials and struggles in Bangkok over the years, as I imagine only a true Saint would not. And Saints are boring anyways, so if you were on saintly side I doubt I would have made it past your second post.
But the point is that you learned your lessons, had your lofty ideals crushed more than a little, adapted, survived, and yet still retained your good heart.
I know how jai dee gets thrown at every guy who can pull a 1000 baht out of his pocket, but the reality I've found, which I think has troubled me more than anything, is the same observation that you made in your previous post. Most guys who come to Thailand are the dregs of their own society, and they approach the girls in a fashion which is completely alien to me. I, like you, am a true romantic.
My father once said when I was a kid that the only thing important in life, is a beautiful girl. A very simple statement, but one strangely enough I've never forgotten. It seemed at the detriment to everything else, I pursued that one true beauty in life. With usually less than stellar repercussions. How do align your love for all womankind, when you treat each one like a rare flower. But each flower is different, and unique. And there are so many of them. And of course butterflys can never rest with just one flower. It seems the rules are fair when the vast majority of guys who approach girls as simple pin cushions, the girls know where things stand. Feelings don't get hurt. But when you treat a girl with respect and dignity, the rules get confused. Hearts get broken. Simple ideals get not so simple.
And hence, there is one true truth. Life is messy. Which is more than half the fun of it. But for how long can you dive in and roll around in the mud, all the while professing your lofty ideals and honorable intentions. In the end, you still get messy, along with the rest of the creeps and miscreants. And are left wondering if indeed you really are all that different indeed.
It would seem the solution is in the conviction, per say. In the power of will to stay above the messy underbelly of life. To realize the true contentment is in a morning walk on a mountain trail with your dogs, not a morning walk out a disco with your latest prize. I can see beauty in each. But the two are so hard to reconcile together. One is ultimately life affirming, while the other is ultimately destructive. Can the two be reconciled, or is it a matter of coming to a point where one is naturally replaced by the other. I know these are questions that obviously are not new to your or anyone who makes a life there. As you said, it's not like closing a door, and that's that. The door will always stay open just a little bit, so as to tempt you back through every once in a while. I'm not good with temptation, hence my looking to you and your commendable convictions. Hopefully hoping they might rub off on me.
I figured that I was always a very stable, centered, honest person who could make a life, but it seems my approach with the girls is what undoes my every time. How do you treat every girl like they are the one, true meaning of this existence, a treasure to be enjoyed and explored and appreciated. And not have feelings develop that will invariably turn bad and lay everything to ruin.
Apologies for my ramblings, but it seems you are one of the rare few guys I'm met over the years who hold the romantic ideal for girls. It's very rare. And of course the answer to all my questions here are patently obvious. And you are the prime outcome of your trials and tribulations which are mirrored back on myself. The answer is clearly to find one, and put all of your work and attention and emotions into. My only problem is that I love them all.
But I'm sure after getting burned a few more times, I'll figure it out. I'm a little like Pavlov's dogs in that way, I keep getting burned but I keep coming back for more. Only question is when will I wisen up and find that one special one. Save a plot in the rice field next to you for me. I'll be there eventually.
Bodhi
February 2, 2009 9:59 PM
Village Farang:
Sorely lacking in grace or tact, the old soothsayer at the bar was not far off. At least as far predicting that you were entering a stormy phase of discontent. Surely, however, there are some who are repulsed by the dark side of life, just as there are those who are drawn to it like a moth to a flame.
You seem to be in that state of limbo where you are still trying to reconcile your original belief structure with the expanded, messy universe you now inhabit. You still judge things, right or wrong, good or bad, based on the beliefs you inherited. Might I put forth the proposition, that there are no “truths” and we believe in things, not because they are “true”, but because they are convenient.
Consider the multitudinous and contradictory nature of beliefs that abound. Each contradicting the others, while all maintaining absolute certainty that they alone are true. Perhaps a world with no beliefs at all, would fall into anarchy. But I believe one can take the position that, “I believe, or don’t believe, because I choose to,” without the need to judge or declare the absolute truth of it. The only difficulty being that one must own the consequences of ones actions based on said beliefs, unable to lay them off on someone else. Surely there is room for a few free spirits to inhabit the realm beyond conformity and blaze their own trail and form their own beliefs.
As for finding “that one special one”, in my case she found me. My only claim to fame is not being stupid enough to let her go because of some silly rules I followed.
VF
February 4, 2009 8:17 PM
Bodhi Bum:
Hi VF,
Thanks for the comments. I know I can be a bit long winded at times, and figured if I was going to write blog length comments, I might as well do my own blog.
Cheers,
Bodhi
I've been posting for quite a bit now. I first started back in 2004 when I had just finished my first trip to SEA. Of course that trip was supposed to have been a little two month around Asia trip between jobs, to find myself some, to figure out my head some more, and to get a little enthusiasm back in me to tackle my great professional career that was to come. It didn't come. I didn't leave. I didn't travel the great expanse of Asia. I didn't cover South East Asia. I got to Cambodia. And I didn't leave. For a year.
Of course that life wasn't feasible, being only in my late 20's and all. At the start of a pretty promising career. Burned out before it even began. But regardless still at the start.
So I had to leave the jungles, park my beloved bike, leave my beloved girls. Say goodbye. With stars in my eyes, and a yearning in my gut. I left. Back to the world. And if you care enough to glance back through these pages, through the archives of my new blog laid out here before you. You will find the start of my blogging life, way back in the summer of 2004. You'll have to deal with the (Originally Posted) tags, since all those old posts were froma collection of emails, other blog sites, etc. All collected now here in one place for you enjoyment. Thank me later.
I've been blogging for a long time, in blogging years, I guess. But never out in the open. For all eyes to see. It's mostly been for friends and family. The occasional blog over the years when I've gone somewhere new. Seen something out of the ordinary. Done something extraordinary. My life has always been about travel, so it's easy to do a travel blog when you see places in your normal travels that most people only see on the news.
But I think I want something new here. Something which I can keep. In one place. Somewhere where I can lay down my thoughts, irrespective of where I've been this day, irrespective of if it's interesting, with disrespect of who might be reading. I've always done my limited blogs with always the presence of mind of who might be reading... what should I say, how will it be read? Whatever. I want to write, for me. For myself. And not worry about the punctuation, the analysis, the judgement, whatever. Just for me.
I've got lot's of time at the moment. It's funny how the more time you have, the more time you have to pour your heart out. It's a fact of life I'm now well, well aware of. When you are living your life, you couldn't be bothered with telling others (friends, family, strangers) about how you are living. When you are dreaming about living your life, you find yourself strangely driven to put your words down for others to see. It used to be everyone wanted to write a great Novel. Now it's the great Blog.
Times change. People do not. My life is now on pause. Hence you are fortunate enough to be subjected to my onslaught of words for the foreseeable future. At least until I get a life again that is. If you choose to stick around, we might become friends.
Bodhi
Needless to say, living in the desert, in a Muslim desert no less, was never really on my wishlist of places I wanted to call home. If I had a choice in the matter, it's not difficult to guess how long it would take me to pack up my bags and catch the next plane to Thailand. Back home to my little condo overlooking the Gulf of Siam. Back to where my heart yearns to be.
But my heart has nothing to do with the matter. Unfortunately. And the mind says to buck up and shut up, and stop winging. And so, since I am stuck here in the desert, and I have never been one to just sit around dreaming about the future and wasting the present, I figured I might as well get my head out of all these Thailand blogs and stop daydreaming, and actually go see what is right out my front door.
Hence my little day trip I took today. To Jebel Hafeet. The biggest mountain in the United Arab Emirates.
Jebel Hafeet is located in Al Ain, which is about a 1.5 hour drive from where I'm based in Abu Dhabi. It's right up against, and overlooking, the border with Oman. I've done the road trip to Dubai over a dozen times now, and have even ventured once out past Dubai to Sharjah and Umm Al Quewan. But was far from impressed. The UAE is a big dustbowl of a country, with the most boring scenery you can imagine. Abu Dhabi is by far the biggest Emirate, and is composed mostly of flat hardpacked dirt, with sand dunes starting up the closer you get to Al Ain. Al Ain is an oasis, so it's pretty green which was a nice change of pace. I've been stuck in the desert so long it's amazing how a burst of green trees when you come around a corner can lift your spirits.
So with desperate need of having my spirits lifted, I hopped in my little Yaris rent a car and hit the road around noon. Long, boring ride there, but I found BBC on the radio so entertained myself on the ride there quite nicely. You can see Jebel Hafeet mountain right when you pull into Al Ain, so with most signs in Arabic, I was still able to find my way to the mountain. 
I read somewhere on the internet that the Jebel Hafeet highway was considered one of the most beautiful mountain highways in the world. And it's actually hard to dispute that. Simply for the fact that there are few other countries in the world which have the money and balls to make a highway like this straight up to the heavens. It's pretty amazing. The roads are so twisty that it's a miracle they could make this highway. And it's high. Real high. My ears started popping only half way up. And my ears have never popped anywhere on land, only underwater and in planes. I actually have a bit of an earache today, since on the way down I thought i was Speed Racer and imagined myself drifting around the mountain curves. But then a real racer (eg: the usual Arab in their obscenely expensive muscle car that they don't know how to drive) decided to race me and I let him pass in order to conserve my life. That's what happens when you give a guy on a camel a handful of cash and tell him to go buy the fastest car he can find. No wonder the UAE has one of the highest road fatality rates in the world.
So it was a decent day out. Nice to get the pics and say I was there. Still hasn't taken off the edge I've found myself struggling with lately. It's only been a few months since I left Thailand to return back to work, but for some reason this time it was harder to leave than usual, and harder to stay away than ever before. I've settled on this life of compromise, living at home in Thailand for part of the year, and returning to work overseas for the remainder. It's the best of all possible solutions, since I am no where near retirement age, and otherwise I would have to choose either, or. In this case I can have what I want, at least for some of the time. It's better to be happy for half of the year, and miserable for the other half. Or at least that's what I thought.
Recently my brother commented that he thought I was living my life on hold right now. And I guess in a way that's true. I guess I'm not unlike many Thailand expats that live most of the year at home like a hermit, so that they are able to afford that precious time back in LOS. I always thought that was a sad state of affairs. But in the end, what other viable alternative is there. The only reason I've chosen this path is that with my earning potential I have the ability to only have to live this life for a certain length of time, then I can finish with this work thing and get back for good. However, that period of time is not insignificant, and the longer I go the longer it seems to stretch out before me.
Anyways, the here and now is a solo day trip to a mountain in the desert. Which I thoroughly enjoyed, and will have to suffice for adventure for now.
Bodhi
Kuwait (Originally Posted Nov 30, 2008)
So my month in beautiful, boring Kuwait has now come to an end. About Kuwait, I'll say one thing. It's one of those places where you would rightfully never, in your right mind, actually go to just for the sake of going. Like who, one day, wakes up and decides that for my next vacation I think I"ll go to Kuwait. My South African client said it best when I said the one thing Kuwait lacked was sights for the tourists to go see. And he looked at me and asked, "What tourists?". And yeah. True enough. I don't think in my entire month there I actually saw anyone that might be classed as a tourist. Everyone there is either there because they are Kuwaiti, or because they are there to make money. Like me. 
But still. I can proudly claim I've lived in Kuwait, add it up to my long list of countries that I've visited or lived in. Just checking, I'm now up to 24 countries at last count, Kuwait being no. 24. Or exactly 15% of the world. Funny, seems more than that. 15% doesn't seem like very much, especially since I've been living out of hotel rooms for the past six plus years. My goal, remote as it may be, is to make 100%. Only 85% to go. Gotta get this work thing over with so I can hop on my motorbike and cross em' off in quick succession. Doing it this way, one country, one month a time with work is gonna take forever. 
So I finished up work at my client on Thursday (Friday and Saturday is the weekend over here. Strange but you get used to it). And flew back home to Abu Dhabi on Saturday, after a small hitch at the airport on Friday. So back home now, and back into work again today. But it's December, and them Arabs love their holidays. So Tuesday is UAE National Day, and a day off work (they have the biggest fireworks show in history to date planned for that night, of course planned to be bigger than the last biggest fireworks show of all time that happened last week in Dubai for the opening of the Atlantis Hotel, and was all over the news. This was, in true Abu Dhabi style, is going to be even bigger). Then next week is Eid holiday (no. 2 since I've been here) so pretty much the entire week is off. Then third week I'm back in Kuwait for a week, then back here for the Christmas holidays and the parents are flying in to visit. So gonna be a busy December, but with lot's of holidays. 
So here are a few pics I took around Kuwait. Like I said, it's a really beautiful city on the sea-side. The actual city leaves a lot to be desired, but what else can you expect from a city built on the edge of the sea in the desert.
Bodhi
Bodhi of Arabia (Originally Posted Nov 14, 2008)
So it's back to work once again. And back to travel blogging once more. Funny that I travel blog when I work, but when I travel for fun I'm usually too busy having fun to have time to write about it.
But now I've got more than enough time to kill, being landed in the land of our Muslim brothers. Who strangely enough believe that a beer is so evil that it warrants being banned from an entire country. Right now I'm resident in the tiny little country of Kuwait, which is pretty much nothing more than a dustbowl sitting on top of an ocean of oil. The locals like to say that gas is cheaper than water. Thought it was just an expression, but it's actually true here.
So since I last wrote a travel blog, seems I was back in South Africa working in Joburg. My little two week business trip there turned into a whole year, which flew by. All I've gotta say about South Africa is that it's the most dangerous country in the entire world, and Joburg is the most dangerous city in the entire world. And I paid that little disturbing fact absolutely no heed. None. Looking back I'm not quite sure what I was thinking, but I guess it was my (misplaced?) sense of invulnerability that kept me from getting shot. Had a few close calls, mugged at knife point once, guns pulled on me twice, but came out without a scratch. And with some great, one of a kind stories.
The summer saw me boarding a plane to Thailand with plans to take a month or two off and settle into my new condo which had just been completed. One or two months turned into several more, and then I kinda lost count. Funny how sleeping into until noon and taking long motorbike trips to the islands and back, can make thoughts of returning to work just a bad taste in the back of your throat. I knew I had to go back, I just didn't particularly want to. Hey, what's the harm in moving your return flight back another two weeks? And two weeks more. Then two weeks more. Before I knew it, two weeks became 9 months and by that time I had become a local. Unfortunately, there was another local who was a right shady character who decided he wanted what I had. Namely my girlfriend. And made sure to drive me out of town right quick. So I took the hint that it was well and truly time to stop sleeping in till noon and board the plane back to civilization.
So of course I couldn't have timed my return any better if I had actually had any inclination outside of my own little simple country thai lifestyle, that the rest of the world was quickly going to hell in a hand basket. So of course my expected jump back into the job market wasn't quite a jump, but more like full on faceplant. How was I to know that the Great Depression #2 was around the corner? Luckily I saw it coming in August before it all hit in September, so I accepted a position out in the Middle East. Specifically in Abu Dhabi. No, not Dubai. Abu Dhabi. You know, the city next to Dubai. The richest city in the world! I've given up telling people I work in Abu Dhabi. Nobody has a clue where it is. So I just say Dubai now.
And to make matters even more interesting, I actually am not working in either Dubai or Abu Dhabi right now. They sent me to Kuwait for a month, so I've got two more weeks to go. Kuwait is that tiny little speck of a country positioned right below Iraq. It's funny how this place is spitting distance from Iraq, but you'd never know there's a war going on an hour's drive away. It's like living in Elliot Lake with a war going on in Massey. Except I can't see Indians blowing themselves up or setting off road-side bombs. Might make the drive to Toronto interesting.
So I'm now resident in this tiny little city where every Kuwaiti citizen owns a small fleet of cars. The teenagers spend their Friday nights roaring around town in Porches and Ninja motorbikes. But you can't even buy a beer. Bud sells non-alcoholic beer, but I couldn't bring myself to go there.
Here are a few random shots from today's weekend walk around the city:
I was out for a walk today and came across some Arab motorbike show or something. And I saw my old bike, my R1, that I rode in Thailand all last year. And the dream bike I want, the BMW R1200GS, for my pending around the world tour. Hmm... Someday. In the meantime I can just dream about it.
So there's the quick update on my life, if anyone cares or not. And to be perfectly honest, I'm only writing this because it's 9pm on a Friday night here in Kuwait, and I'm dead sober, there's no bars or clubs to go out to, and I'm bored. So too bad.
Bodhi